Tim Barrus Blog

  1. medical abuse by blair

    Often, the medical community, in its quest to reduce our humanity down to what it sees as manageable numbers, just creates bigger problems that are difficult and complex to even begin to solve. The medical community is indifferent, patriarchal, authoritarian, mean, and frequently wrong. Infectious disease specialists have a long

  2. writing about HIV and being sexually abused

    I would liquidate my body But especially my ass That is what he always wanted I had to hold still While my mind screamed Squandering depreciation A pull upon the Pursuit of extortion If I told he would kill me It was not a joke He would kill me At…

  3. AIDS Is Not Over: Tim Barrus: NY Times

    Tim Barrus: New York Times https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/04/health/aids-cure-london-patient.html?action=click&module=Top%20Stories&pgtype=Homepage http://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/04/health/aids-cure-london-patient.html?comments#permid=30899203 I have friends from the Democratic Republic of Congo. They will not get a cure. They are dying. I have friends here in  Appalachia who will not get a cure. They are dying. I know a married couple who live in Samara, Russia.

  4. Selectively Mute

    Selectively mute children are selective silent for a reason. They want us to understand the degree to which they were traumatized. So they pick a very dramatic vehicle to SHOW us (versus telling us) they mean business.

  5. Sexual Abusers

    Requiring sexual abusers to have to pay towards the support of boys who have been victimized – including subsequent therapies when the child becomes an adult – could go a long way as a consequence of this monstrous behavior. Make these men pay. Real dollars. This, too, could upend Foster…

  6. HIV & Heart Disease

    For some people with HIV, high blood pressure, and increased levels of cholesterol (the bad kind) can affect associated inflammation linked to heart pain and heart disease. Combine this with a competitive personality, like Smurf’s, you may have to yank him out of strenuous physical activity – or – any…

  7. HOW DO WE RAISE BOYS TO BECOME MEN

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  8. Your Clandestine Appearances

    Video: Tim Barrus let’s be clear/ the only reason you are allowed anywhere near us has to do with money and revenge/ the cash you leave behind belonged to you/ the revenge is mine/ the kid you abused has seen you walking through/ but you will not ever, ever see…

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  10. Being There 4 When It Happens

    by Hunter Layfield It takes me a while to get what Tim is talking about when it comes to photography. This time: BEING THERE IS ABOUT MORE THAN HANGING OUT. Tay had to be comfortable with me in the room when he played on the mattress that is his bed.…